Is Singapore really Disney???

The year of the rat? Or the mouse….

So many times since arriving here I’ve had the feeling that we’re living at Disney world. Ironically there isn’t a Disney park in Singapore (there is a universal which might be why). Liam’s comment on no Disney is “that is such a miss by Disney”. Maybe the feeling is because we just took our first (and possibly only) trip to Disney this past August (some unplanned foreshadowing of the daily heat we now live in). Maybe it’s condo life with 24/7 access to a beautiful pool and hot tub.. maybe it’s the nightly laser light show that’s visible from our balcony? I think what I am really feeling is we are living in a city that we are still tourists in. I’m super happy that we are trying to make our most of our time here and enjoying all that Singapore has to offer.

Marina Bay Sands light show (from the back)

Each night at 8pm (and Friday & Saturday at 8,9&10pm) there is a music choreographed master light show from the bay and the top of marina bay sands. We saw it one night after having dinner at marina bay with the music. We were on the back side of it (ideal viewing is from the Merlion) but it was still pretty great. We also can see it lasers on the top of marina bay sands every night at 8pm. Avery and I like to watch together.

Waterfall grotto at the Botanic Gardens Ginger Garden
Climbing in the canopy walk
The orchid garden. Singapore is know around the world for their famous orchids.

Maybe it’s living so close up to Botanic Garden which is such a beautiful oasis…

Cannonball at adventure cove. Perfect form!
More Adventure Cove fun.

Maybe it’s living only 20 minutes from the “resort area” of Singapore. We’ve been down to Sentosa every weekend so far. It’s pretty amazing. First weekend was the above pictures at the water park. The next weekend was to watch the Singapore Open golf tournament. Not the kids favorite reason to go to Sentosa, but a nice day out. Finally last weekend we made it to the beach! People generally poo poo Singapore’s beaches, but I have to tell you, they were not to shabby..

A happy man at the golf tourney.
The southernmost point of Asia, Palawan Beach
See, not too bad?!? The sand is so soft!
Found a beach club! Eating on the beach with a pool? Yes please!
Avery doing laps at FOC beach club waiting for food. They’re not always so uncrowded, we’re just early birds for Singapore.
Our new ride, the cable car at Sentosa! The only way to travel! Proud member card holders. The a answer to can I ride the cable car is always, Yes!
More cable car views. Major shipping here in Singapore! Missing your amazon order? I found it!

Maybe it’s the nightly fireworks display we can see from our balcony for 10 days over Chinese New Year. We tried going down to marina bay sands to see it, but it was hot and crowded and our balcony is so peaceful, so balcony it is!

Happy new year!

I think it’s really because we still feel like tourists. We’re starting to run out of steam and need some lazy days, but maybe those can be from the beach….😉

Gong Xi Fa Cai!

Happy New Year! Chinese or Lunar New Year in Asia is a BIG DEAL. Since we moved here, decorations have been popping up all over town.

Our first weekend here we saw some acrobats and drummers on our way home from the water park in Sentosa.

Random street performance in Vivo City after we bought our TVs!

There are celebrations for a month! On Thursday the kids celebrated in school. We were told they could dress up if they wanted. The dresses are call cheongsam (traditional Chinese dress). None of the kids were sure they wanted to wear them (I was all in, they are adorable, cultural appropriation at its finest). Avery was the easiest, Mrs Sapna said they all dress up. Bought a cute dress at the tanglin mall one day while picking up groceries. Done! Liam and Ella were much more difficult. I spoke with Liam’s teacher who said the boys were usually 50/50 on dressing up. I didn’t have anyone to ask for Ella and middle school kids are so fickle… one of her friend said she was, the other wasn’t. Hmm. Finally the night before, they both decided they wanted to wear them. Off to great world city mall we went (where I had seen clothes for them at a pop up market a few days before). Liam ended up with a super cute, navy linen (which he loved, said it felt like PJs). Ella was adult sized!?! She chose a traditional red floral print. So cute!

All ready to celebrate! Note Liam’s gym uniform peaking out… ready for a quick change.

Ella was already nervous. She wore her sweatshirt over top (at bus pickup it’s already about 80 degrees..). We got to our bus stop, and not one kid was dressed up. Horrors. At the last minute, one of the other 4th grade girls came running up in her dress. Still not ok. Ella had packed her uniform in her backpack just in case. Mom fail…

Parents were invited to attend the assemblies which I planned to go, but I was so confused about when they were. Some. Immunizations said 9, some said 10:30. Ella kept saying block 2 (whatever that means!). I left the house at 8:20 and figured I would just head up and grab a coffee and see.

I arrived exactly at 9, and sure enough there was an assembly. I will back track at this point. While sitting in the gym I had an epiphany. Part of my general confusion since the kids started school was, in my mind, they’re all at the same school. Which is true. But, they are each in a different sub school (lower elementary, upper elementary, middle). Each of these has a separate administration and are housed in separate buildings. Think 2 Burr’s and 1 Tomlinson. So while many things are the same, a lot of the scheduling is different.

Back to CNY! Liam’s assembly was first. It was awesome! The Chinese language teachers ran the assembly. They had a student group sing in mandarin first. The the acrobats came. Chinese New Year is the lunar new year or the spring festival. Each year has a zodiac animal associated with it. This year coming is the year of the rat. Sounds kind of gross to me, but they manage to make it look like a really cute mouse. In mandarin, Avery’s learning a very cute song about all the different zodiac animals.

So the first thing at the assembly is the lion. Liam was so excited to see lion dances. The lion is 2 acrobats, one small one in the front, the larger in the back. They wear a very elaborate costume that might be scary, except you can kind of see the acrobats in it so you know it’s really just people. I took a ton of videos..

Some of the lion dance…

The lion dances are a big deal, they are everywhere here and all over Asia. I’m not 💯 sure how they tie into CNY other than they are performed during celebrations. We still need to go see some others but I guess they are used as competitions between martial arts schools and the stunts get more and more elaborate. They were pretty tame here, but they did climb a pole! They also let the kids pet them which was cute.

There was also a dragon! I didn’t know it, but Avery told me later, that the dragon chases a pearl (the gold ball) and that’s how it knows where it’s going. Thanks Avery!

The dragon comes to SAIS!

There was also a red lion, which I didn’t think was as fun as the yellow, but Avery said it was her favorite. Probably because it was when the kids got to dance as well.

The red lion dance

After Liam’s assembly, Avery had hers. The same. I stayed for about half. Both she and Liam had huge smiles on their faces the whole time! Ella’s was after Averys. 3 schools…

Avery in the paisley. Boy-girl-boy-girl seating. Mrs Sapna is no rookie!

There is a lot of mythology and superstition associated with CNY. You are supposed to clean your home prior to CNY and get rid of any clutter. The number 8 is also lucky. There is a tradition of giving Hong bao or red packets for CNY. These contain money or chocolate coins. The money should be new crisp bills and in a denomination of 8. I think the bus auntie is waiting for hers… Our kids think they are getting packets with $88 in them. Hmmmm.

The kids can explain it better, but a lot of the celebrations stem around a mythical beast called Nian. In ancient Chinese lore, The Nian needed to be scared away in the spring so the crops could be planted. The Nian was scared of the color red and loud noises. This explains the explosion of red everywhere and our wonderful nightly fireworks display over marina bay sands for the next 10 nights!!!

So far we haven’t ventured out yet for any of the big local celebrations, and I think China town is too much for us, we’ll wait to go that until after the holiday. Ryan and the kids have a lovely 4 day weekend for the holiday. We might brave the crowds at the river hongbao celebration one night this weekend and next weekend we might buy tickets for the Chingay parade. Right now, we’re enjoying the tourist areas being quiet (CNY is also a time for family gatherings, so not at the sights!) and a much needed long weekend. Originally I was sad we hadn’t planned to travel this weekend but now I’m happy. We’re all exhausted and there’s still so much of Singapore to see!

Happy Lunar New Year to all! 🧧 🧨 🎇 🌝

Week 1-School Update

We all survived the first week of school! Actually, I think we more than survived, dare I say, they thrived?!? I’ll add an update for each kid…

The bus auntie making sure they get safely off the bus. No chance to trip here!

Avery – we knew going into the move that the transition would most likely be hardest on Avery. We were correct. I met briefly with her new teacher (Mrs Sapna, many teachers here go by their first name…). Sapna immediately picked up on Avery being a perfectionist. If she doesn’t know how to do something, she gets very upset. Needless to say she was spending a lot of time the first week in tears. Ironically at home she was happy, chattering about school and excited to get on the bus. She has made a few new friends, the girls in her class seem very sweet. There is a birthday party coming up this weekend which she is excited for. Academically, I think she’s ok. Sapna said she reads well but struggles in phonics. Not surprising since they don’t really teach phonics at home. Hopefully the emphasis on that here will be of benefit. She also has nightly homework (mostly reading, a little math). It’s a lot of reading and we’re struggling to do it early enough in the evening so she’s not too tired. It’s hard to have a good afternoon routine when it always feels like summer. For now, at school she knows she can always go to Mrs Sapna for a hug and that seems to be enough. Oh! And I forgot! Avery tried our for the school play. She was VERY scared to go try. But I am so proud of her for doing it. She didn’t make it (they were very sweet about it and she was totally ok with it). The good news is that not being in the play means she can take her much anticipated parkour class.

Reading away at her new desk

Liam – honestly, he has been such a trooper during this whole move. He’s always up for an adventure and generally complains the least. Continuing his streak with always getting the best teachers, his teacher, Ms Christou seems absolutely amazing. She invited all the new families to meet with her on Friday afternoon and gave us all the info and more! I love her already and so does Liam. Liam is loving having a block schedule with more time to learn. He is enjoying mandarin and learning about Chinese New Year. He also loves his UOI or unit of inquiry. This unit they’re discussing energy. The teacher also uses whatever their UOI topic is in math and language arts. For his homework this week he has to write a science fiction story about what would happen if the sun went dark. I can’t wait to see what he writes! Liam also has his very first orchestra audition. They are VERY serious about music here. Most of the kids begin as toddlers with Suzuki lessons. So I was very proud of Liam for standing up proudly, playing his scale and twinkle, twinkle. The instructor gave great feedback, saying that despite his lack of experience, his tone leads them to believe with a little hard work, he will progress quickly. They placed him not in the beginner group but 2 groups up. Hopefully he is ready for the challenge!

Prepping his borrowed violin after not playing for a month!

Liam also tried out for the swim team on Friday! He’s always enjoyed summer swimming at BRYC but has never been keen to swim all year round. I think the nice facilities here coupled with the extreme heat have made him change his mind, which Ryan and I are so excited about. He will be on the developmental team. They like them to practice 4 days a week, but we are going to try for 3 days. Coupled with one day of soccer and one orchestra, he will have something everyday after school and a swim practice either on Friday or on Saturday or Sunday. We’ll see how it goes, but I’m so proud of him for trying!

Ella – this move was also a complete unknown for us with her. As most people know, she has been struggling with some pretty severe anxiety for a long time now. The change was scary for all of us. While the week was not 100% bump free, all in all, I think she did amazing. Every morning instead of homeroom here, they have advisory. Her group is made up of students that have all moved here this year. They have a teacher who’s job it is to make sure they are doing ok. All middle and high school students here have advisory. They also discuss social issues. This week they are discussing bullying with names. With calling names or making fun of someone’s name. I love this acknowledgement that kids this age need someone to ask them everyday if they are ok. Not just happen to notice, but to actually sit down with them and check in. It’s awesome. Ella also received her long awaited iPhone. I’m happy to report she’s busy WhatsApp’ing away to 2 new friends, Vanessa and Cory. Both are American and in her advisory group (both moved here at the beginning of the year). She has a third potential friend, an Israeli girl named, Maya. Hopefully these friendships progress to the meeting up outside of school phase but either way, I’m so happy she’s making friends! School seems to be going well, though I have less contact with it since it’s all on the computer. Ella also tried out for the orchestra (also having a month off) and was placed in a group that is so excited to have a bass player. There are very few bass players here. We still have to figure out an instrument for her to practice on, but one step at a time!

Such a beautiful bass!

Erin & Ryan – how are we doing here? Hectic. Now that the kids are in school I thought it might calm down. But I’m still waiting. Between being stuck in the condo waiting for deliveries/service people and the never ending grocery shopping (starting to get the hang of that) the days go by in a blink. It also take me about 45 minutes to get to the kids school which I’ve been coming up more than I anticipated (in fact I’m sitting at school writing this!). Figuring out their after school activities and transport has proven frustrating. Making friends has also proven slower than anticipated. I know that I need to get involved to make friends, but that feels a bit far away as I’m still struggling with the day to day. Had a totally frustrating day yesterday where I accomplished nothing. Cried the whole way home from the kids school on the MRT. Good news is it’s a teachable moment for the kids. This is hard for all of us. Ryan’s working a lot, those extra hours he gained from the short commute have been sucked up by the 24 hour work cycle of maintains his position in the US. We knew what it would be but it’s still hard. All in all life here is pretty great, it’s just that sometimes it’s not home. Life’s not all the post-able moments. But, I take heart that the routine will settle in and soon this will feel at least a little like home.

First days

School has started! I think we were all ready for a routine and to get on with normal life. Liam especially was ready to go to school to meet some friends (not that he doesn’t love his sisters…). However, I would be lying if I didn’t say we were all nervous.

The kids are attending Stamford American International School. The campus they attend is grades 1-12 and has 4 buildings separated by a large soccer field. There are about 2500 students which for Singapore international schools puts it at a mid sized school. We chose this school because it was an American school, but it followed the international baccalaureate educational structure (if you’re curious about IB: https://www.ibo.org/about-the-ib/). We thought our kids would benefit from the change in educational structure while we were here. The school is also slightly more diverse, being only 35% American. As Avery said after her first day, “I am the only kid with yellow hair!” Walking around campus, it is truly a melting pot of cultures.

Why is it named Stamford? Not for Stamford, CT! But that does give us a chuckle.

It is named for Stamford Raffles who was the British naval officer that was sent here to colonize Singapore. Many countries in Asia have a complicated relationship with their colonizers. Singapore seems to have a very comfortable relationship with their history. My guess is that this is because their period of British colonization ended peacefully (they were originally part of Malaysia after the British left but shortly after that, became an independent city nation). Singapore also is very business driven. I think the government realized early on that to retain a peaceful relationship with western nations was to their economic advantage. What do the local Chinese/Malay populations really think? I don’t know that answer.

Back to the kids!

During their orientation last Thursday, I asked if I should bring them or put them on the bus for the first day? I was immediately parent shamed. “Wouldn’t you want to bring them the first day?” Yikes, we’re not in CT anymore!

So we took a grab to school on the first morning. We arrived at 8am. They had all the new families in a courtyard and cones with grades on them.

With 3 kids, I couldn’t be with all of them. Luckily, Ella was whisked away quickly, I hardly had time to say goodbye! Liam was nervous, but happy to stand by himself. So I waited with Avery. There were 2 other new girls and a boy. Avery was in her new class with the boy, Jayden (his western name, he’s actually Korean). His mom, Diane was very nice. She and I grabbed a coffee after drop off in the parent cafe (again, not in ct any longer). They let parents walk the littlest ones to their room and I got to meet Averys teacher, Mrs Sunder and her assistant Miss Vickie. They both seemed lovely and all the kids couldn’t wait to meet their new friends. I knew Avery would have trouble, and sure enough, the tears began flowing. I almost cried myself. The reality of what we were asking the kids to do was heavy in that moment. I knew she would be fine, but it didn’t make it easier. I quickly left as to not cause further disruption to her or the class. Then I popped upstairs to check on Liam, who looked like he had always been in that class.

After school, they rode the bus home. Everyone seemed happy. Liam already has a couple of friend potentials. Avery did too, but she couldn’t remember their names. Ella said a few kids were nice but no friends yet. As expected on all accounts.

Liam and Avery come home on a different bus, about 30 minutes before Ella. They all take the same bus to school. They’re picked up right at the end of our driveway by a coach-like bus. My favorite thing about the bus, is the bus “auntie”. In Singapore it is common and respectful to address adults as “auntie” and “uncle”. The bus auntie makes sure the kids are buckled, behaving and for the littles, that a parent or caregiver is there to receive them off the bus. The kids bus aunties seem kind and properly strict. I’m sure Ms. Gina on bus 5 in Fairfield would love a bus auntie!

There are a lot of kids that get on at our stop. Most of them are older. There is a girl that is also in 6th grade that lives in our complex and in the building next to us. She is in ella’s advisory group (like a homeroom). So far she and Ella have not seemed to acknowledged each other’s presence. A big part of the problem is technology. The girl always has ear buds in. It’s hard to make a friend if you can’t talk to them. Every kid middle school aged and above is 100% plugged in for the bus ride, so that eliminates that as a friend making opportunity. At school they have a no phone policy thankfully. Ella received her long coveted iPhone 11 last night so I’m sure she will be plugged in as well.

They all seem to be loving the classes so far. They’ve all had mandarin and are busy telling me Chinese names for things. Ella has a new MacBook Air for school which she loves. Ella’s adjusting to the block schedule and seems to really like it. Liam played touch rugby in gym which sounded fun and Avery has “a naughty boy” named Nacho in her class.

They have long days, the morning bus comes at 7:38 and the littles get home at 3:45 and Ella at 4:20. Their after school activities begin on the 28th, so it’s hard to see how a longer day will work but I’m sure they will adjust. For now when they get home, they are loving pool time and yesterday Liam spotted some boys his age so he’s on the lookout!

Wildlife

And I’m not referring to my children…

Singapore is a tropical rain forest. It’s easy to forget that from our condo in the heart of the city, but even here, we’re reminded of this fact (see cockatoo sighting in the last post). As someone who considers herself an “outdoorsy” person, I am terrified of “critters”. One of the reasons I was keen on living high in a condo is Singapore has “critters” that are things of my nightmares. Thankfully, we have not seen any snakes, YET, but we have seen our fair share of wildlife.

A few days ago, I took the kids to the Botanic Gardens. There we saw our first clouded monitor. Liam saw it first, and let out a scream that is indescribable.

What is a clouded monitor you ask?

I’m assuming it’s related to an iguana. They’re fairly good sized, harmless but freaky to see especially since they blend in so well. Ryan saw one today at the treetop walk (more on this later) and screamed “it’s larger than Avery!

We think we saw it’s relative, the larger and definitely scarier water monitor from afar, swimming in a pond at gardens by the bay but we cannot confirm despite Ella having us try to track it down in the woods 😳

The other night at dinner in Robertson Quay along the Singapore river, I felt what I thought was a bug on my arm. Oh no, it was a gecko. Screaming ensued.

Today was the ultimate test of my “critter” fortitude. We took a hike at the Macritchie reservoir to the treetop walk. This was super sweaty, exhausting and beautiful. The treetop walk is a suspension bridge that was built through the canopy of the jungle. It’s about a 3k hike into the jungle to get there. Needless to say, there was a LOT of whining from all 5 of us. The point of this forced march was to see Macaque monkeys. Moving here, we promised the kids monkeys and we had yet to see any. Unfortunately, for the first 2/3 of the hike, we saw nothing. We were crabby, hot and disappointed.

Here’s a few pics:

Note, no Ella in the last pic. She decided she was mad at us and was running ahead.

Finally, on the way down from the treetop walk we hit monkey jackpot.

We also saw two of these guys:

No words. Around this time Liam and Ryan also informed me that some snakes can “fly” through the air, “jumping” tree to tree. Deep breaths.

We saw many more monkeys on the hike out which greatly improved all our moods.

Not sure what future wildlife we are in store for but our first week was pretty eventful!

Hi ho, hi ho, it’s off to MOM we go…

We’ve been here a full week! It feels both quick and long all at the same time. In many ways, it feels like vacation. Swimming in the condo pool each day, eating out too much and visiting some of the sights. In between getting settled and the constant grocery shopping (the kids say every time, again?!?) we’ve been pretty busy. Since this might get long, we’ll just talk about Tuesday in this post.

On Tuesday morning we had a visit on our balcony from some local wildlife, a cockatoo. My mom is convinced it was escaped, but as it flew in a pack of 3, I’m pretty sure they were wild. They haven’t returned yet but we anxiously await and hope they don’t enter open balcony doors 😬.

Tuesday was also a big morning as we went to MOM (ministry of manpower) and became official residents of Singapore! Immigration in Singapore is tied to employment. So there were no embassy visits for us before we left the US. Basically, Ryan’s company submitted a form that stated that he was employed here in Singapore. They then issued him what’s called an EP (employment pass) card which is his immigration status. The kids and I are a DP (dependent pass) which is based on Ryan’s EP. Our status means we are residents of Singapore, but our children are not immediately eligible to attend the local schools (they would have to pass a difficult test and then be entered into a lottery for school location which could be anywhere on the island) and Liam when he turns 18 does not have to serve in the military as all male Singaporeans between ages 18-20 do. We are also not eligible for local housing (called HDB). All of this is fine as we are only here for 2 years and Ryan’s company has us here on an expat package.

After MOM (which only took 20 minutes, love Singaporean efficiency) the kids and I walked along boat quay to go see the Merlion.

The Merlion is in Marina bay (across from the marina bay sands hotel with the “boat” on top) and is the symbol of Singapore. It’s kind of silly that a lion is the symbol at all since there never were wild lions in Singapore (there were tigers, but not anymore thankfully). Once upon a time one of the many peoples that occupied Singapore claimed there were lions and it stuck. We did not take a picture trying to catch the water in our mouth but watching others try to take that picture is hilarious.

After that, it was time for a juice!

Better flavor selections this time, all were consumed!

Ella really wanted to buy a plant for our balcony, so we headed back toward home to the Tiong Bahru wet market and hawker center.

Yes, Avery is using 4 chopsticks. No forks at this hawker. The other thing they never have is napkins (they do have wash basins and Singaporeans will wash their hands before and after they eat). Most people carry a pack of tissues which you can use to “chope” your table. Chope means to save. If you leave anything on a table (a pack of tissues, a water bottle, your cell phone) you have chope-ed it and no one will sit there, move or steal your stuff. Being a one time New Yorker, I don’t think I will ever accept the lack of crime here.

After that we walked around Tiong Bahru in search of ice cream (no Singaporean ice cream vendor. Bummer!). We found a store that was cat themed and a very good, fancy ice cream store next door. While the girls and I got very small one scoop cones, Liam got this:

Lucky kid!

Finally home for a rest and swim. That night we went to the uniform store which was such a whirlwind that I took no pictures!

Phew. Hopefully you’re still reading!

Down the rabbit hole…

We’ve officially arrived! We all survived the direct flight and it was even an hour shorter because we had a good tailwind. The kids traveled like pros and we loved that Avery watched the map almost the whole way.

We landed on Saturday night and the kids and I went directly to the hotel while Ryan took our luggage to the new condo. We stayed at the Hilton on orchard rd, which is in the heart of Singapore’s shopping district (but really, everything here is a shopping district, no one does retail like Singapore). The kids thought it didn’t feel much different than home (that will change). We were deliriously tired, but the kids still had enough energy to take a dip in the hotel pool.

Not the best pic, but the best I could get of sleep deprived kids running around the pool. Once Ryan joined us from the condo, we had a very unremarkable first dinner at California pizza kitchen, cementing the kids view that Singapore was just like the US.

Christmas decorations are still up on Orchard Rd!

That night jet lag came calling. Ella woke up at 1:30, Liam 2:30 and Avery at 3. Day 1 was going to be a very long day indeed. We were all anxious to get to the condo. So after an early breakfast at the oldest Starbucks in Singapore.

We headed to the condo. Since we were traveling light, we walked through the neighborhood that connects our condo to orchard rd (about a 10 minute walk). On the way we saw 3 cats that looked like Tia. We thought that was a good omen.

Home!

This was at about 7:30am! Up we went to explore our new digs, unpack and make our beds.

Kids on our new balcony, sunrise over Marina Bay Sands from our condo and Avery making her new, much anticipated bunk bed.

So far the condo has exceeded all of our expectations. It feels like a home. We have a long way to go with furnishing and decorating, but we have a great view, get a wonderful breeze and love the space. The only adjustment will be the white marble floors with kids. Yikes.

By 10:30am we were swimming in the new condo pool. The kids have declared it the biggest pool ever.

Next we headed out for lunch and a grocery store run. We took the kids to a very small hawker center by Ryan’s office. Singapore is known for their hawker centers. They are open air markets with stalls for food. The vendors each specialize in a specific food that many times their families have been making for generations. They are inexpensive and very delicious. We had pork dumplings, roasted duck rice and roasted pork rice. We also introduced the kids to the juice vendors. I got a fresh coconut and the kids each picked fruits to juice. Their choices had mixed reviews (Liam’s guava wasn’t the best). But we all love sugar cane juice on ice.

Next it was home for a much needed nap!

That afternoon we tried ordering our first amazon prime now order. At home in CT I’m not an online grocery person. Here, without a car, that’s going to have to change! What we didn’t realize is that our intercom wasn’t set up yet. Ryan received a text that said “delivery fail, order cancelled”. That was our first reality check that things are going to take some time here to get setup. Some things are similar to home, but most are not. Just figuring out where to buy a kettle and a toaster oven is a project. It will all come together and part of the frustration with not knowing is how you get to know the city. For now, I’m so proud of the kids who are riding the buses like a local and being such troopers about being dragged to endless stores. Hopefully in a few days we can be tourists a little and enjoy our new city.

Where is Singapore?

Full disclosure… I’ve never been to Singapore or anywhere in Asia for that matter. Ryan has traveled over the past 2 years to Singapore 4 times for work. I also have to admit that when he first started going, I had no idea where Singapore really was. What country is it a part of? My worldwide geography was sadly lacking. It turns out Singapore is one of the few city nations in the world. It is an island located at the tip of Malaysia almost right on the equator (which is how it earned one of it’s nicknames, “the little red dot”).

This means Singapore is HOT all year round. Coming from Connecticut, this is going to take some getting used to for all of us. It’s hard to imagine living where the temperature is always between 77 and 95 degrees and the only difference is a wet season in November-January. All those jackets and sweaters will be going into storage for the next 2 years!

One of the most exciting aspects of this move for us, is the ease of travel to other locations in Asia. Singapore’s airport is one of the biggest hubs in Asia, which means lots of frequent and inexpensive flights to places that have always sounded dream-like to me. Bali, Phuket, Ha-Long bay, Australia, India, China, Japan are all anywhere between a 1 and 8 hour flight. Right now we are super excited and motivated to plan all our possible travel, I only hope we can sustain the momentum!

Next up… Figuring out where the kids will go to school.

You’re moving where?!?

I always thought it would be fun to live somewhere else in the world, but I never actually thought we would have the opportunity… Then life throws you a curveball. This July, Ryan’s company asked our family to re-locate to Singapore for 12-24 months and suddenly a daydream became our reality!

Our family while we are still Nutmeggers…

Who are we? We are the Morris family. I’m Erin, almost 42 a stay at home mom who needs to figure out what she wants to be when she grows up. I’ve been married to my wonderful husband, Ryan for 17 years. We have 3 pretty awesome kids, Ella (almost 12), Liam (9) and Avery (6). Why are we “Nutmeggers”? A Nutmegger is a nickname for someone who is from Connecticut. I always thought this was a silly name, but it somehow seems to fit for this crazy adventure. We currently live in Fairfield, CT until our move in January 2020.

Why are we writing this blog? The goal is to try to document our adventures as we live and travel around Asia. At a minimum it will be nice to have for our family and maybe someone else will enjoy it too… Stay tuned as we count down the days until our move.